It is not about how good you are, but rather about how
great you potentially could be!
On the 15th of December 2002, I was marking a route for an Adventure
Race to be hosted in the mountains close to Cape Town. Just after
11pm, the 4x4 that we were travelling in got stuck in a mud hole.
Working against time, I rigged a rope around a tree and the 4x4’s
recovery strop. Using a 1,5 meter metal bar I wound the rope to
generate pull to tow it out of the mud. Yes, we do stupid things
when we’re under pressure!
With too much “strain” on the rope, the metal bar ripped out
of my hands and hit me on the left side of my face, catapulting
me about 3meters into the air. My left cheek, eye socket and temporal
lobe were instantly smashed into hundreds of tiny bone fragments.
We were in the middle of the forest with no way to explain
to rescue personnel how to get to us, it was therefore up to us to get to
them.
We stumbled across rocks and tree trunks for 35 minutes before
a police vehicle found us, another 15 minutes later I was in the back
of an ambulance to be transported to the Somerset West Medi Clinic,
about an hour's drive away. After 6 hours of reconstructive surgery
enough of my facial structure was in place to facilitate the natural
healing process.
Nobody told me what I should expect owing to the effects
of brain trauma. This was where the real challenge started! Over
the course of the following 5 years I was faced with a total inability
to focus on anything for more than 3 hours. Suffering from severe
mood swings and suddenly becoming an extremely emotional person
added a further dimension to being subjected to losing my house
and car. This was owing to not being able to meet my monthly financial commitments.
The downward spiral I faced included total lack of self-confidence
and finally bottomed out with severe depression.
It took two years to realise that I was the only person that could
help myself out of the mess that I was in. It took the next three
years to teach myself to believe in myself again, how to be motivated.
Most importantly, it took this time for me to find my life purpose.
It is these principles I relied upon in getting my life back, that I
have used in compiling my Keynote Topics:
Just do Something
Rain Making, and
Good to Great.